Normal??

Normal? What is that?

You can see the definition as usual, typical or expected.. But how even you know what is normal and what is not? Coz it's been weird now days..

Some questions, got to me indeed... How to be normal?? OR Am I normal?? etc...

People sometimes does that to themselves and wondering if anything they do or speak or wear is normal or look good in other people's eyes. What other people say about us is quite have an affect with us whether your like it or not and we can't deny it.. It's becoming a pretty important to look good or wearing good brands or trying to follow the trends so that your (our-self) image is good in people's eyes especially millineals people..

To be honest, it get tired that you need to pretend sometimes even you know it yourself and it might also be because you just want to stop hearing the talks but what can I say, they always be talks even sometimes we doing it right it still there..

So normal? What can I say is it will feel different for everyone.. There might be some general things that will seems normal for everyone but it can change in times too.. It means that normal can be interpret differently from your own point of view but that's doesn't make you to judge other people in the process of understanding what you feeling at the moment.. In this crazy world we live in we need more people to be thoughtful not with other but we yourself too.. Everyone seems to say that don't do this to other and that but how about yourself? I know some say I care for myself too but have you? Have you ask yourself how are you doing? How are you feeling? Are you okay? Have you even do at least a minute to breath and just let be yourself?

You know, I always feel that the dark the sky become and as it gets closer to midnight my thoughts become deeper and sometimes when I still chat with my closest friend the topic also become deeper and it made me realise that I seems to have a bit of a clear mind and self reflection with it.. I don't mean you need to be like me, just find your own best time and maybe it may clear your mind a bit too..

You know, it's okay for you feel sad, angry, happy, grateful and weird in your own way.. I just 2 quotes that I think I need to share it with you guys here.. So the first one is, "being authentic will radiate more pure energy than trying to be an ideal you".. Which get me thinking, aren't we all think to much to be the ideal what we want to be but we don't even realise that we are not being us (ourself in the process).. That's make us sometimes lost in the middle of the process and we become confused what we actually wanted as a person or as the way people treat us..

The second quote, "no one else can convince you, you're enough. only you can do that." So it leads to what I'm about to say. That if you can't even set your mind to it, then it's not gonna work.. You determination and mind is what you need to help you be a better person and be better to other people too..

Tell me what you guys think...